Interesting topics for online dating
Saying the right things to her is important but there is one thing that she will see even before she reads your message.
The first thing a woman sees when you send her a message on an online dating site is the subject line. Come on, you can be more creative than all the other guys who write a boring “hey”, “how are you” or “hello beautiful” in the subject line.
We are surrounded by online dating sites and weird but highly effective dating apps.
A couple of years ago you were frowned at when you said that you met your girlfriend on an online dating site. Today people are rather shocked when you tell them that you met your girlfriend without the help of modern technology.
The two most common compliments are definitely “you are cute” and “you are beautiful”.
Women who are actively searching for a partner online have heard those lines a million times.
Even though the following subject lines sound completely ridiculous they actually worked with a great success rate when I used them: You are beautiful but why are you so shy?
I believe that because it has become so easy to find, talk to, and meet up with someone, there is little risk involved and therefore less effort to create real connection.
You meet up with someone to make small talk for a few hours hoping to convince them that you are a fascinating, charming person.
Telling a woman why you are attracted to her looks is great but if you want to make her feel really special you have to be one of the few guys who tell her that her personality and her hobbies are also nothing to sneeze at. If you have never done that you will be amazed at how much women reveal about themselves in an online dating profile. If she says that she traveled to six countries within the last year, you would be stupid if you wouldn’t tell her that you like the fact that she is well-travelled and that it is amazing that she is brave enough to travel all around the world. You made clear that you are not only attracted to her beautiful smile, but also to the fact that she is an interesting person.
It is definitely nice to know that you like the fact that she is well-travelled but does she have any proof that you not just say that without meaning it?