Currently seperated online dating
A man in the group went back and forth from his ex to others he met..and over. Another woman too began dating...to be hopeful then very disappointed each time.What I am getting to: those who are divorcing (particularly after long-term marriages) are in NO CONDITION EMOTIONALLY TO HAVE ANY TYPE OF DATING/SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.Hell, you’re even a risk if you’re just out of a divorce and want to “play the field”.And that’s the part, Pat, that I have to acknowledge on behalf of women." OR "Call me when you are divorced then maybe we could get together." Can this backfire on me? I can see the ex coming after me with a knife or gun. Additionally, I haven't asked him any details about the divorce, I told him he can always talk to me about it when he is ready.This makes me think that no matter what anyone says here about what you should or should not do, you already have your mind made up about this guy.
I had women beating down my door and almost begging me to date them (or more), but since I was still "married", I refused to do anything.
For purposes of answering your question, I want to share some TRUE stories: 1.
One woman started immediately dating a man in our group, thinking he was THE ONE..to find out later he was literally using her (he told her that) and she was devastated. Another began dating immediately and slept with every guy that came along...time saying he was a "lovely man" 3.
My counselor is even the one to want me to start getting involved in dating.
My problem is that because I am only separated and not divorced I fall into that stigma by women that I am only on the rebound, and they are not willing to give me the chance to start any type of a relationship.